Marriage

I have this idea long ago, our current marriage system that apply in most society, is bullshit.

Once again, I prove that my point is correct and when I disbelieve in this system, I am actually going to live happily ever after.

Love is really the easiest part to be achieved in a marriage, the meaning of love is so vague and there's no rule in love, is like a piece of paper, you can draw anything on it to define love.

Marriage is a system, it has rules and it needs a lot of work, and I believe this system is created for political reason. And this system only apply to old generation when there's no so much freedom and room for people to discover other aspect in life. The political picture changes everyday, every era, why have not marriage system change? Because of religion? Because of culture? I don't understand.

As we all know, now you don't need to get married to have baby and no one will look at you like a freak. You don't need to be with opposite sex to find your happily ever after ending. You can be a single and happy forever. You can fly, you can see the world, you have your PSP, Ipod, internet, cellphone to keep you busy all the time. We have so much to do now, we need to work, we need to rest, we need entertainment, we need to travel, we need to catch up with the world and etc...But why we choose to compromise to another person and just stuck at one place forever? Why there's even this "rule" of couple should sleep on the same bed?

Why there's no flexibility under this system?

I believe you fall in love for no reason but you married for a reason. Whatever reason that is, it should be something that you believe in, not what the society ask you to do. You create your own rule, and is ok whatever rule you want to implement in your own "wedding system", as long as you don't kill and don't use any violent.

But right now, there's nothing much we can do to change the whole social system, but remember there's only 2 rules in marriage is fixed and must be followed. First you need to legally register, and second you need to legally divorce. All these are paperworks with the government. GOVERNMENT! So marriage is politic, it affects your tax pay and your vote during election.

You can't have the same definition for love and marriage, marriage is a system, is not about you and me, he and she, is about 2 families make contact and connection. Is about surviving on the earth by forming your own group, is about responsibility, is about getting stronger, is about complete your duty as a human being: to get laid without worrying getting STD or AIDS and to produce your next generation.

Of course, you can make this process whole lot of fun, that's depends on how you want to do it, how you want to make your new rules for it, no one is going to tell you what to do and what to expect. No couples in this world will have the exact same marriage, same issues or same consequences.

Marriage can't bond a person, it certainly can't bond a soul. When it has to come to an end, remember, the most important thing is to keep yourself survive, because you can always enter the system again and do it differently.